Gay marriage is a very controversial subject and the
debate has attracted many. In our
society, some (myself included) people believe that homosexuality is immoral
while gay advocates believe that everyone have their preferences. Thus, it is important to put into
consideration the sexual preferences of everyone in our society.
The article GopLawmakers Make Case for Upholding Gay Marriage Ban by Eli Okun and Terri Langford
describes a brief that Greg Abbott’s office filed arguing that Texas’ ban on
same-sex marriage is constitutionally sound and that this matter is to be
decided by the voters not the courts.
The brief was filed in the 5th Circuit Court of Appeals, where
the state is appealing the ruling that same-sex marriage was
unconstitutional.
To begin advocates for same sex marriage argue that
denying a couple the rights to marry any person of their choice regardless of
their sexes is not right since it denies them of their basic human rights. In fact, there are certain rights (health
care, social security, and joint tax benefits) that un-married people cannot
enjoy.
In the brief, the state argues that same-sex
marriage cannot encourage the birth of children in the context of stable and
lasting relationships. Research done by
Krause depicted that only natural marriage between a man and a woman can
consistently provide a stable and nurturing environment for the growth of the
next generation.
Furthermore, the brief indicates that the court
should not overrule the voters’ decision to define marriage in the state
constitution as solely the union of one man and one woman. Opponents of the ban insist that with the
rapid increase in single-parent family and the outrageous divorce rates over
the decade, the true meaning of marriage is weaken. I have to disagree with opponents of the ban
here because the traditional definition of marriage has always been the union
between a man and a woman. Changing the
definition now could lead to confusion in the society where others might claim
it is within their rights to have multiple wives.
The attorney general argues that the state does not
need to prove that same-sex marriage is detrimental to the state interests, but
simply that heterosexual marriages are more beneficial. One must remember that children raised in
homosexual homes are continually exposed to homosexuality. In fact, they are at a high risk of becoming
homosexuals themselves because their environment will affect their behavior. On the other hand, if these children are
raised in a traditional home they have more of a chance to turn out normal.
They counter the argument that they cannot provide a
stable home by saying that there are many children around the world who are
living in stable gay households. The only
issue with this claim is that they have no solid evidence to back it up. It is pure speculations.
Opponents of gay marriage ban contend that gays
would be of benefit to the society. They
claim that since gays cannot procreate if allowed to wed would have no choice
but to adopt. In essence, there would be
less children needing to be adopted. Consequently,
the state would need to spend less to provide for all the children currently in
foster care agencies.
It is my opinion that same sex marriage violates the
sacred institution of marriage. Almost all
of the religions around the world, condemn homosexuality. The Bible serves as a guide for a lost
humanity. I am just afraid of the aftermath
of same-sex marriage.
Opponents of the brief say that the constitution
says that they have a right to the pursuit of happiness and if a person of the same
sex makes him/her, happy he/she should be allowed to pursue that. My only problem with this mentality is how
far will we stretch the line? What if
someone else declared that they found happiness with a non-human, would they be
allowed to marry it? There must be a
point where we draw the line not because we are trying to hurt anyone but because
we have morals to follow.
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